I am co-creating my life, always learning and seeking wonderful ways to experience life. Animals and botanical creations reflex the human creation back at us, for instance a tree, strong roots bringing nourishment through the pillar and branches that reach out for light, information, understanding. As the tree receives nourishment they give nourishment it is an easy ebb and flow system. There is a maternal presence too which is co-creating with their surrounding family, culture, enviroment constantly reaching out to make sure that everyone in the family is taken care of. If one of them is in need they send nourishment through the roots.
Not many cultures in the west, address the trinity of life, body, soul & spirit, mother, father & child, positive, negative & matter. We all know about energy, vibrations, atoms, cells, dna.... yet we are never taught how our bodies, souls & spirit co-creates with the planet and universe. We go straight into abc's and 123's and completly leave out the fact that we are the most magnificent creation that you are ever going to experience. The only way we can improve our life's is by awakening ourselves, by expressing our truth and creating a way of living that we are proud of. In other words we all need to wake up and change.
Creating balance between the family has to be the first prioity. Things are starting to get better but we are still creating the family dynamic from the idea that males are number 1. For thousands of years women have been told to follow men, we must listen to them no matter what. As a nanny I was given a great insight of family dynamics. Over the years I became more and more discouraged with the school system and the paternal way of living.
I always remember when my parents used to tell me I had to do something I would ask why ? they would say because. I would say because why? That always throws adults into a wobbly, then they would shout because I said so, and this is my house my rules. To be quite honest I was convinced that none of them knew what they were doing, as my friends would tell me their parents would say the exact same thing.
There are so many system that need changing our education system which has been ourdated for years. Our children are far more intelligent than the unconscious retaric that they are fed, Every wonders why kids smoke and drink, maybe they are trying to escape the prison sentence of enless schooling that lies before them like a prison sentence. My Story Of Adoption I would like to tell you one of my stories so you can see how my work relates to everyday life.
At the age of 8 I was told I was adopted by my cousin. We were having a fight as you do, when she called my dad fat. So naturally I came back with, so what your dads a big nosed ginger, and she said your adopted. Now I had never heard that word before so I made my way home and asked my mother. I was born in 1957 so things were kept hush hush in those days. You might of seen people doing these strange movements with their mouths behind a hand or two. They tend to over exaggerate their words in an open mouthed slow mo way, to talk about things everybody wants to talk about but knowing it was not the sort of thing you talked about in those days subjects like Cancer, Adoption, Divorce. My parents sweetly told me all there was to tell me and I heard..... People just give other people away. I had family members telling me how much I was loved, I knew I was loved. I just did’t understand the giving away bit. I did play up just to see if they would get fed up with me and actually give me away. Its didn’t happen, besides I would just go to my Grandmas house, everyone needs Plan B. I never longed to find my birth parents, maybe one day I will look into it. I am sure I carried the feelings of my mother and her grief about giving her baby away, but the awaking of all of that experience was when I was 8 years old.
Fast forward to when I was mid 40’s when the universe sent me a wonderful teacher who taught me how to change my story and create a new one, (thankyou Hazel) That feeling I couldn’t shake, the fear of not being invited to the party was a feeling of abandonment. I don’t know if my life would have been any easier if I had changed my story earlier in my my life, I would have liked to have had the choice though. Having the choice to look at situations in your life and choose whether or not you would like to change them, thats huge. You get to change your perception, which is the filter on how you look at everything in your world. Choice and truth is the core of this work and that is why I am so drawn to it. I am glad I eventually found peace, even if it did take 35 years.
Gaining Self Mastery and Co-creating with your Family
Its important for children to have verification of their intuition at an early age so they don't forget their language. When their mam's and dad's hold space for them to grow in a natural way., they can educate themselves. Human beings have a natual ablility to seek knowledge, to ask questions. Childrens most favorate word is why? When you force feed them with too many subjects they lose the ability to seek for themselves. To be able to express how they feel about their experiences, is the purpose of living on the planet., expression enables humans to evolve.
Of course they need to learn how to live in their community, learn about their culture how to survive and so on. Children have a natural ability to see the truth in situations as long as they are not fed with superstions, myths, believe systems. We have to ask ourselves is there truth in the things we believe? That is why it is best for mam's and dad's and people in general to investe time to get to know themselves, how to heal themselves, upgrading the old system for a forward thinking holistic and intuitive life.
When we empower ourselves we empower others Conscious Living Is Co-Creating
*Awareness of who you are * Knowledge and access to spiritual principles equals self mastery * The ability to reach for the truth and healing, when faced with difficult contrast’s in life * Creating emotional and physical homeostasis * Self Healing * Creating better choices, for you and your loved ones * Knowledge of who you are * Knowledge of how your body works, its wants and needs * Knowledge of stories that bind you * Knowledge of how to create new stories
An Invitation To Change Your Family
As human-beings we are gifted with a magnificent form our bodies. Our bodies holds memory from many generations and of course this life time too.
The Perternal system took over which is the system we have today one singular male dominating the government and so on.
It is time for us to join together to co-create as a Maternal & Paternal family.
As we know the earth is changing, the energy is changing and so must we.
We must move with the planet or we will find it difficult to survive
The Conscious Family
I would like to offer you a different perseptive on the family.
I feel it is important to involve each member of the family in the decion making, no matter how old they are. Every human being comes into this world wanting to be heard, wanting to express themselves. Why? because that is their purpose here on earth is to express themselves so they can evolve.
When we learn how to listen and love ourselves we can express ourselves in beautiful meanful ways.
We can create and become part of the solution instead of being part of the problem. We can't find the solutions if we are being taught about things that haven't worked.
Learning about your 7 chakra centers
What each chakra center means to the body, which glands they are connected to.
How to listen to the body, what it likes to eat and drink
How to meditate, and sing to the body to cleanse and strenghten the centers. Why? because it makes you healthy
How to breathe
How to exercise
Consciousness is a vibrational language to be nurtured and respected The same geometrical system that is in the body is replicated in nature, we use vibration to comunicate and so does this planet. The Botanical Kingdom and the Animal Kingdom relate through vibration, and so does the Human Being.